RIGHT! Out comes the angle grinder

Cut the ends of the ball joints off happy days. Ball joints are only a tenner a side.
Now the passenger side driveshaft came out a piece of piss. The drivers side one is trying my patience.....
Could someone explain exactly how I do the bolts? I am following haynes but either i'm not turning thbe bolts properly or the driveshaft is very stiff. I have loosened the nuts right up now which way do I turn the bolt so it will disengage the intermediate bearing. Clockwise or anti clockwise(looking from the passenger side). Any tips on getting the driveshaft out?
Next question, I understand I need a special socket to change the ball joints...Anyone on here have one of these sockets that they would be willing to lend me? I would pay postage and could paypal a deposit if they wished?
Failing that how much do they cost in the shops? I doubt I will never need it again so I could probably ebay it once used.
Cheers,
Rob