I got all excited then Steve,
I thought I could regale you with my knowledge and experience, having brought over lots of gear from China on a commercial basis,
then you dashed my hopes with the revelation that you wanted "domestic" type shipping
I have a cousin who relocated back to the UK from some time living in S.A and he used a firm that "live loaded" his gear in S.A in 2 hours and he got the same to unload back in the U.K 8 weeks later, it was a killer 2 hours isnt long to unload a 20ft container let alone a 40, so if you manage to find someone that will, do bare in mind that 2 hours really isnt long unless you have at least 4 of you willing to go at it like loons
the same goes for loading, would your Father and Brother be able to load a full container in the time span? to ensure safe shipping it needs to be well packed otherwise as soon as they start transporting it all you worldly goods will smash themselves to bits, and finally if they offer insurance (as they should) take it for sure, light containers go on top of ships and the heavy ones go in the hold, if the weather is bad upto 0.09% of containers can be lost overboard on any one ship, doesnt sound a lot till you work out that the ships carry upto 15,000 containers so all of a sudden 0.09% is significant especially if its your 0.09% that goes overboard
other than that i have nothing for you mate, but if needed i can try find out who my cousin used, but it was a few years ago mind.
Disco