

Spoke to AOL who were quite dismissive about it, said my account is safe, and we changed the password. I've deleted loads of old contacts just in case it happens again, one of my business contacts got one of the e-mails so it was embarrassing explaining "it wasn't me"

AOL said that we must have opened a Spam e-mail at some point and a 'bug' entered the system allowing access to my contacts and being able to Forward e-mail to them (none of this stuff appears in the sent box either).
Just want to confirm: I quite often 'open' weird-looking e-mail but NEVER click any links or respond in any way, is this wrong? should you not even open it at all? my work e-mails get filtered and any dodgy-looking links are removed automatically so it still lets you 'read' it but that's it.